How much harm have we suffered and how can we undo the indoctrination of our childhood?

the first thing we can do is stop lying to our children about God . He is not all loving . and then we can teach them to actually read the information on GODS and let that child come to its own conclusion instead of perpetuating the lies that we have had to suffer . Out of all the religions not one will go into heaven . God will not take one and not the others . he will take what he sees as worthy . and it wont be those that claim that there way is the only way because the only way to get to heaven is to go through hell just like Jesus did